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Wednesday, August 23rd, 2006 | 22 Comments 
1st off, new layout :*:. I really wanted something vibrant and also “cluttered” if you will. Sidebar showing and full of “junk”!!! LOVE IT! I’m usually so minimalist with my sidebar. Also, the colors are similar to the color palette I’m thinking about using for the wedding. It’ll be next Autumn (probably October ‘07) and hopefully set outside. I’m not sure yet. Mike & I had plans formed, but future mother-in-law shot them down and now Mike’s all worried about which day she thinks is right. I won’t get into it. It’s not a big issue because really, I’m ignoring the whole damn yackin’. But now Mike’s all like, “Maybe we should do it in summer.” but, the prices are better in Autumn and we’re paying for the whole damn thing. I really, really, really wish my Dad wasn’t such a greedy son-of-a-bitch and be traditional and PAY. He HAS the money. But he’s too busy buying new cars, computers, and TVs. anyway, I digress.
We went to look for wedding bands today. The ladies at every shop were falling all over themselves when it came to my engagement ring ^^. I mean, I know I love it and that coworkers had really liked it, but…. these girls… they were too preoccupied with staring at it, asking about it, fawning on it, and… and… putting it on themselves!!!!! YES! I’m serious!!! I was trying on the bands when this one sales associate slipped my ring onto her finger and admired it!!! Mike saw her. I started feeling really uncomfortable, ya know? Like she wanted Mike to propose to her or something.~~
Jenny posted at 10:11 pm ; Wednesday
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yay i love this layout!!! and the color pallet is gorgeous. Your wedding reminds me of last year when my cousin got married…since we were direct family we got to decide with them and help them out with everything!! so exciting! I’m sorry those girls were acting like that…it was really rude of them…not even considering your feelings~ very cute!!! ^__________^
WOW! This layout is so beautiful! The colors are breath taking and just…wow.
It just must be so awesome to be engaged and soon to be married. You sound so happy, although I’m sure you’re quite busy wtih wedding arrangement and that’s always a hectic time.
I’m sure those ladies are just jealous that you found your perfect man. All this talk of your engagement has really gotten me to think about my life and when I can find my perfect one. Although I have plenty of time left, I managed to suffer my first heartbreak and I wonder how many more must I go through…
I LOVE this LAYOUT!! Oh my goodness it’s so pretty~~
Ahh, I’m so glad I didn’t have that prob w/ the whole M-i-L situation. I’m glad you’re not letting her ruin your dreams and how you want it to be. Mike needs to realize it’s your guys’ decision and what she thinks shouldn’t matter b/c you two are paying, for one, and it’s YOUR wedding. Tell her to get married and then she can decide what she wants, hahahaha~
Pretty pretty layout!!
So your colors are going to be browns and pinks? I’m going for black, white and light pink. 
I hope all the plans work out for you guys. Parents are so annoying. :( We can’t even get all our stuff together because we really need to sit down with ALL our parents present and it’s harrrrd. Argh! TT-TT;
Ew ew I feel you on the ring thing. There was this creepy girl in my math class this summer that was obsessed with everyone’s engagement ring. She kept complaining that she wanted one and it was really awkward!!
UWAHHHHH~! So PRETTY!!! I ADORE this color scheme!! Wow, I hope things work out with Mike’s mum. Your dad seems like a prick -__-; And WTF?! That’s….so….ugh….can’t believe someone would actually try on YOUR ring…wtf, I’d be awkwardly annoyed.
your wedding sounds exciting and i defiantely love the colours. the ladies at the shop sound a bit odd though! i hope your plans aren’t too pushed aside by your mother in law. good luck x
WOW!!! I love your new layout. It’s so cute. ^^
And I hope that your mother-in-law doesn’t get into your way and you are able to do your wedding as planned. Parents are all annoying sometimes. And it’s sad that your Dad doesn’t do his part to support your wedding. :( Oh, and on the one side it’s cool that everyone adore your ring, isn’t it? They are all jealous at you. ^^ But I wouldn’t like anyone staring at it all the time or even try it on… I understand why you feel uncomfortable. Some people can be so annoying.
Anyway, I wish you good luck with your wedding plans, too!
Wow, this layout is so gorgeous! I actually love these colors~ for a wedding in the autumn sounds perfect. It’s probably twice as expensive to get married in the summer, right? (_ _); ~ well your ring is gorgeous so I’m not surprised the women wanted to steal it! Hahah. Watch your back Jen
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Hmm, I would have told them about how you were feeling uncomfortable…I mean, that is REALLLLLY creepy. I wouldn’t want a pretty ring like that on any hand but my own, I wouldn’t let the thing out of my sight for any reason!
Hmm, that’s pretty weird of your dad, has he always been like that? I mean, it is kind of a tradition for the families to help out. I hope that you and your love can come up with the money somehow and still have an amazing wedding! I can’t say enough how happy I am for you guys! =3 I wish you both the best of luck!
First of all, I absolutely adore this new layout!
Then of course… my cousin had a bunch of issues on picking a day for her wedding due to Buddhist superstitions and what day was a “lucky day.” Considering you are paying for the wedding yourselves, it really should be only up to you guys on what day you do it and in what season. I’m not sure if you’re planning on having a destination wedding, but I’m going to go ahead and assume that a lot of people will have to travel due to your Southern roots and current location in MD. Maybe your parents could pay for a little part like the rehearsal dinner or something.
awwww the new wedding layout is soooo sweet!!~~~ i LOVE the warm colours~ so creamy and warm and …cozy-feeling~~~~ i think having the wedding in autumn is SUPERB! because autumn is sooo beatiful, it’s not hot and sticky nor freazing, just kinda cool, and with some breeze you get some pretty falling leaves over you, kinda romantic!~ omg they actually try on your ring!?? they’re wayyy to “curious”….=.=”'’
the layout is really great
i dont know what to say abut those ppl trying on the rings..it’s kind of weird..o______o;; sigh u should’ve snatched it back! anyways the emoticons are nice, i just noiced the little notebook thingy at the date and subject..nicenice
I would have bitten off that girl’s head if she ever tried on my ring.
…well, if I had one .
Go Jen!! for your awesome strength and will!!
Gorgeous layout. Noticing your “junk” side looks a bit nicer. A wedding in October? Hope it isn’t cold!! Goly, your dad should pay for it too. askdfl;
Those ladies are RUDE. They are just envious of your ring. Gahh, something precious worn by some strangers. :C!!
just a quick one! LOVE YOUR LAYOUT!~
Oohhh your new layout it truly sweet
I so feel like eating it! Goodluck with all the planning. Haha autums are lovely to get married, If I ever get married I definitely want to be a “June Bride” haha
Say what? Someone put on YOUR engagement ring — bwaahhh that’s RUDE! I think I would’ve slapped her or them!
I love the layout its very pretty
Meh why are parents so weird, you’d think they would be thinking about what you to want not themselves on such a special day.
sales ladies can be scary lol
Muaaaah~ I love this layout!
It’s really sweet and it reminds me how hungry I’m right now. lol. 
Oh my, while you’re busy over the whole wedding planning, I’m stuck at home being terribly sick. :( However, I’m catching up with your life!
About your future mother-in-law…. I don’t know. It’s very mean of her to interfere. After all, it’s not her wedding but her son’s and yours. Also I wouldn’t say that your plans are bad. Autumn sounds nice, if the weather is better than here.
I’m sorry, that your dad is not paying…. You’re not alone. If I’m going to marry somewhere in the future (within the next 10 years
) be sure that we’ll be paying it ourselves without help from our parents….
ooo Your engagment ring sounds fab! I have to see it
Post a pick. Rgg Im going to send your dad hate mail for not paying for your wedding! rawr
I love the layout!! 
Fab layout Hun! Your wedding spirit is so contageous!! Jeez, nosy shop assistants really grind my gears. It’s like “Yes, I know my ring is more gorgeous than anything you have here, but HANDS OFF!”
xox
pretty colors!!! people get overly familiar sometimes (the wedding ring)…
argh! that’s so creepy about the ring. it’s ok to admire, but try it on and fall all over themselves in admiration? weirdos.
Your dad sounds a lot like my grandfather. He has money, but would never spend it on anyone but himself. He used to make his children buy all their own clothes in high school. When they graduated from high school, they got a key and had to start paying rent. When he found out that my mom had started to save up and begain to buy “apartment” things to prepare to move into an apartment, he kicked her out. He would use “his money” to buy expensive clothes, a motorcycle, etc for himself. my grandparents eventually divorced after he gave my grandmother a STD, but they got remarried after 8 years… wtf is wrong with her??? but I digress. hopefully he is not that bad!! (but it really does suck :( :( )
at least, when you pay for it you can have everything exactly how you want it. ignore Mike’s mom, unless she wants to help out! let him sweat it out, then do what you want in the end