Hybrid Wedding


Tuesday August 29, 2006   

They call them “Hybrid Weddings.” Semi-planned elopements that involve whole families knowing and parties, and WE’RE doing it!!

October 2007 Mike and I are planning to get married. First, we’re off to Mississippi for the family. A very large garden wedding party will be set-up Martha Stewart style with all the lovies like delicious food, beautiful decorations, wonderful music, lighting, flowers, a wedding cake, and… of course, friends and family. Cocktails and kind words. The next morning we’re off to Hawaii where we’ll get married (perhaps mountainside) and spend 2 days. From there it’s to Kyoto, Japan for a week long honeymoon that will end in Tokyo~ :*:.

Hawaii

ね~---------- What do you think? This is what we’ve decided (so far) after discussing literally over a dozen other options including ease of obtaining the marriage license in the state. The full gambit of wedding arrangements from big to small. This one,… feels SO right and will keep us on budget. It’s also so much fun to plan this one. The big ceremony/party in DC just made me miserable to plan. The costs, the lack of family around to help… it was no fun. But this, this I can plan with my Mom and even Dad. And my Maid of Honor. I told her last night. She was so surprised too, which surprised me!! I told her it’s a great deal because she doesn’t have to buy a dress that’s ugly or anything!! Plus she’ll get presents. Hahaha. She’s a friend from High School <3. I'm so happy she'll be there to see us off. I talk to her a lot, but haven't gotten to see her since I didn't go home last Xmas.

anyway~~~ This is where we are right now. I’ve got plenty of time to decide on things. I still love the garden party wedding dress I posted earlier. I adore that 1950’s flair to it too <3.

 



23 Responses to “Hybrid Wedding”

  1. Sasha says:

    that sounds amazing! You get to elope (in Hawaii, nonetheless) and still celebrate with your friends and family. tres romantic ~~ :)

  2. Jenii says:

    Uwah….that sounds awesome on so many levels *o*

  3. Lorik says:

    ohh wow…that’s like the perfect wedding!!! I think it sounds wonderful~ ^__________^ yay!!!~

  4. Jenn~ says:

    Sounds like you really love this idea, I’m glad you were able to come to a decision were utimately YOU TWO are the ones who are happiest. ^0^

  5. Thanh Ha says:

    Wow that sounds awesome. Hope my wedding will be as epic when I get married in 40 years. :D

  6. Jen says:

    I really like your plan! LOL, you know what? We kind of see eye to eye when it comes to weddings. I would also like to get married somewhere out of the country. I dunno, never saw myself getting married in a church =P Anyway, going to Kyoto sounds like a blast!

  7. Midori says:

    wow, that really sounds nice. the garden party dress is cute, and so different to me just cause of the length. it’s very fun. are you looking at any other similar dresses ?__?
    okay, take care!

  8. genevieve says:

    oh wow that sounds so awesome! i’m so excited for you!

  9. Livv says:

    What do I think? I THINK THAT’S FUCKING AMAZING!! Omg, I am so coming to your wedding somehow and following you to Tokyo :|

  10. Peach says:

    Sounds like a great plan! I hope you guys stick to it.

  11. Jamie says:

    Wow, I can’t believe that you’re actually getting married! It seems so sudden! But I am happy for you. I’ll see if I can con my dad into letting me send you a congrats card or something. Btw, congrats and I hope you have fun on your wedding day and in Tokyo Japan. I wish I could go and see my friend online getting married. But unfortunately I can’t…but post a lot of pictures okay?

  12. Hollie says:

    Omfggg!!! That sounds like a FABULOUS idea!!!!!! :) I am so excited for you :) Finally uve come across something that suits ur family, urself, and of course the hubby to be! :) Woo hoo!

  13. Meru says:

    Oh, that sounds lovely! ^_^ I’m glad you guys have worked it out for the most part.

  14. Aleida says:

    OMG that’s just a super idea! A large garden wedding party – :D OMG I love Martha Stewart!!! I so hope you guys stick to this plan – going to Japan during your honeymoon *ahhhhhhh*

  15. YoLei says:

    =) Yay!! Almost everything is going to be done in October. Take lots of pictures. Wow.. Hawaii. Nice. Japan should be awesome. It’s a great plan.

  16. Melon says:

    Sounds absolutely beautiful… and I won’t pretend I know you or anything but just from reading your blog I think an informal wedding would suit you… like when I get married I’d suit a formal wedding in a church more.

  17. Lona says:

    Oh you asked once if I IM-ed you. In fact I did, but I was bored, so I didn’t have anything important to say xD

    wow. I’m glad your wedding plans are going great.

  18. Stacy says:

    I LOVE the idea. A LOT. I’m so jealous…even though I’m just 16 and don’t wanna get married or anything, I just wanna have a party and then go to Hawaii and Japan :)

  19. Nick says:

    Wow, you sound busy busy busy! Your wedding plans sound just amazing! I really wish you guys both the best!

  20. minnymiss says:

    hawaii was my wedding destination!

  21. Kim says:

    I LOVE THE IDEA! Only, I wish you’d spend more time in Hawaii!

  22. Aravis says:

    Wow, this is a lovely idea! :D I love how you two get to trek so many places at once! And I can just imagine how the whole sorta kinda elopement would be so romantic. ^^; It’s a great plus too that everyone can work together. :D

  23. cheri says:

    whoa, this is a new idea that i’ve heard about, and it sounds AWESOME. congrats for getting engage (i know i might be late on that, lol) Anyways i hope you’ll continue to enjoy planning everything with your future hubby!

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