Something else to say
Wednesday, September 27th, 2006 | 8 Comments 
Obviously, a tough few days including today. Mike & I had some bizarre streak going on and we fought 3 days in a row. Wasting precious free time angry with one another. The hardest part, I feel sometimes, is that I have VERY few girlfriends in relationships that can really relate or understand (most my friends are single.) Really, it’s mainly me getting advice from my Mom =_____=;;, which is sad and lame. But it’s comforting to hear that everyone has dumb fights and dumb things they can never meet eye-to-eye on and that…. love is hard. Is it human nature to hide the dark side of love??? Eh~ I spoke about this bullshit in my previous entry. Anyway~ Hopefully it’ll get better. Sometimes I just feel like beating my words into the side of Mike’s head!!!! HAHAHAHAHA!!!! CAN’T YOU JUST SEE IT MY WAY!?!? Everyone has times where they are sick of compromising. And there is so much bad talk of love failing. We eat up broken-heart films like crazy and idealize the “PERFECT LOVE.” But is it love if no one has to sacrifice for it??? How do you know the depth of the person’s heart if they’ve never had to give something up for the one they love???
OK, now I’m making myself nauseous on my “deep thoughts.”
Godiva has these pumpkin truffles out for autumn. May I say, a bit disappointing. Yea, oh well. Not everything can be spot-on with pumpkin awesomeness.
I was trying to get to visit my family this October, but now it won’t be till November. My Mom has been stressin’ me out ’bout it too. Crying on the phone and then today saying “You have a full life” in a very weird way. I feel so guilted. I haven’t been there for over a year. But, even when I only lived an hour 1/2 away they only visited once & it was for Mike’s graduation. Why can’t THEY visit me!?!? Why can’t THEY be the ones to spend $400 to fly HERE!? ~sigh~ it’s been stressing me out for a few weeks now. Works hard too. I’m just so stressed, especially this week.
Jenny posted at 10:22 pm ; Wednesday (3 weeks ago)
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Jenny
OMGOSH your blog feels like a yummy pumpkin!!! very AUTUMN feel~~ same time next year will be your BIG DAY eh?? well, husband and wife always fight, it’s all normal! say sorries after a few minutes, some flowers/chocolates, it’s all good haha~ and love IS hard! especially after being with some one for SOOO LONG, and compromisation is just a big part of it eh? but i bet, if you don’t see him for a month you’re gona realise how different life is without him!
You can always talk to me about relationship stuff, kay?
Just shoot me an e-mail if I’m not online. I know it’s not the same as having a friend in-person to talk to… usually I have to sort out stupid feelings on my own.
I feel ya on the visiting thing too. My parents never visit me and they’re within driving distance. :( Sometimes it’s like they don’t even care~
Ew, sorry for ranting in your comments! T__T Here’s hoping BOTH of our weeks can shape up.
It feels like that time of year when the carelessness of summer dies and the stress of Autumn kicks in *lesigh* Ah! It’s funny but despite not experiencing this relationship business first hand, I hear about it quite often from friends and I’m not sure how but I do kinda understand what you mean. Does love REALLY require sacrifices though? I’ve always wondered. I mean not that neither party should be so stubborn to keep their views but I mean in general. Should it REALLY require that a part of each person be relinquished? Does it really show that you love that person more if you do?
AH! WHY CAN’T THEY VISIT YOU?! I swear I don’t understand family sometimes.
Hahaa, not a fan of pumpkins but despite them not tasting all too great, those chocos are damn cute.
Feel better ne? Don’t forget to just sit and relax whenever you can ^__^
I wish love were easy. People always like to portray it as so simple - guy meet girl, some obstacle gets in way, guy gets girl… but then what happens??? they always leave out that part. and, of course, they both instantly know they love each other. I wish.
too bad your parents won’t visit you :(
-petpet- Yeah, I can relate to you. There have been weeks when my boyfriend and I fight for a week and it’s usually about something stupid that isn’t worth fighting for. But it’s made the relationship all the stronger. But yeah, there is no such thing as a perfect love.
Those truffles look so cute and yummy!
I wish I knew a place around here that sold cute candies like that without having to d…OH! Nvm! We do have a Godiva place in the mall. 
Silly me. I should go look and see if they have any.
D:
DOH! dont mean to spam. @_@ I guess that I read the post wrong. Those are your parents! (D: Sorry Mike’s mum and pa!)
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I think everyone who’s been in meaningful relationships feel that way sometimes. Fights are probably harder and more emotional because you have so many feelings invested in the relatioship already. One nice piece of advice someone told me that kind of cheers me up when I feel like I’m hitting a dead end with my bf: if relationships were easy, no one would be single.
Indeed, super pumpkins… =S